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Hey guys,
I met one of this girls from the hosting apps. I doubt she'll leave a review on the app. Since we met from another site but we both used the app. She is staying at my place for a few weeks. She's got her own bed. How would you guys approach it? I'm hopeful Alex can answer since this might be a advanced question.
So far: i have been more of the chill landlord. I was friendly to her male friend who brought her stuff. I played it cool. The first night I did not try to hook up. Since being too aggresive from the get go might be a turn off.
What's the best strategy? Play the long game, slowly try getting on her space? Should i try to sit on her bed? Invite her to watch movies at my bed? Try to get her drinking? Damn, so many questions!
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Hey Alex,
I checked it out but I think those guys where two while I’m only myself.
Do you mind a few follow up questions? I’ll continue in this thread and keep asking and you and the guys can answer I guess. She’s staying for a month so I think that I will have plenty of opportunities with her and other girls.
Strategy:
Buy red wine, get her drinking, invite her back to my room for a massage or Netflix. So far I’ve invited her but no alcohol I think that might be the missing ingredient. How do you get a girl to drink with you? Like with this type of girls in hosting it’s been a mixed bag.
I would just offer it cordially. I wouldn't push her to drink alcohol. It's an activity you are doing already that you just invite her to
Guys, any ideas?
Don’t forget the basics. Intro, Banter, Soft close, screening. Should feel natural and free-flowing. When I’m in conversations with anyone I like to use these elements to get what I want. Start up a conversation with something either funny or interesting/sexy. However, I’m new to this so potentially take it with a grain of salt lol. Good luck 👌🏽
