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So this solid 10 I was talking to for a while acted super high interest for a few days after we moved from hinge to the number and asked me for a picture after I told her I got a haircut and then was debating shaving my beard. She didn’t answer and 4 days later just texted back: “Hiii I feel terrible im just now seeing this but I hope you kept the facial hair. I also hope you don’t hate me for the absence.” What do you guys think of this? She seems genuine and I know she works but what would you guys respond. The “redpill” in me wants to not answer or leave her on read but I don’t want to be close minded and miss out on the chance for the potential hangout and lay. I have several other girls atm wanting to make plans which is why I don’t care as much about not answering and dealing with a girl that took so long to get back to me. so what would you experienced guys do in this position? Am I just being too “redpill” by thinking of not replying? Or should i text back with somethin more serious by basically seeing if she actually wants to hangout? What would you guys text back and also some advice for a younger guy with less experience with women acting low interest/busy. Im less concerned about this situation and more wondering about this for future reference because I normally don’t have issues but my friends say it happens a lot with more attractive women. Thanks guys.
You don't need to insert any suppository redpills man.
dont over think this man, it could be any number of reasons, but at the end of the day it doesnt really matter, she responded, she still interested, go for the meetup, one of the worst things you can do is to take this personally. And miss out on a great expereince as a result
I would tease her "too late, i already returned the ring" if it's clear that you're not serious about marriage anytime soon. Some bullshit like that. I would wait a bit to send it obviously. Yeah, I don't know what to say about the red pill shit. It has you considering not responding to a dime, so... what are we doin here boys?
I would personally not make a big deal out of it. Maybe set your self up for a soft close and then hard close.
As you said she does seem genuine. “I understand, I prefer to save the talking for in person. We should get together for a bottle of wine”
Paraphrase as you see fit for your specific convo, but something along those lines is fine.