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So she’s not into “dates”, should I just let this go ? I know this is just a minor/semantic thing, but tbh she’s not that hot that I don’t mind if we just ghost (but neither is she that bad that I don’t mind coming to the forums for help lol)
"Split a bottle of wine and see how the chemistry is"
I wouldn’t keep going on about why she doesn’t like romantic dates. You should’ve stayed in the direction of finding out what type of date she likes. She might openly be into hookups man. But right now, answer her question and then go back to figuring out what she’s into. Openly ask her if she’s into hookups. Find out what it is, whatever it is.
In my experience, I've learned that at least some girls don't like to make it a "date" because it feels a bit formal and they feel pressure to have to dress up and do all that shit. She might just be a girl who enjoys chilling lowkey, maybe due to some bad experience in the past on a date or just a general feeling of being judged/evaluated on a date.
If you dont have solid interest I'd just move on. If she is on a dating app with a fear of dating its going to be just annoying to deal with
