Problem with woman trying to change the frame of our date

So generally speaking when setting up dates, I tend to go with a soft wine close, if they seem compliant or down I go for their number, then the goal is to set up the date as soon as possible. My logistics aren’t the best currently, I usually plan for “a romantic wine date” I see if the girls house is an option, mine generally isn’t rn. If they say, yes all is good. If they don’t seem as dtf or complaint, I usually try to set up a beach date ( I live in Florida and this seems like a low pressure day time kind of date that has worked well for me) but open to suggestions.. anyways

The two biggest problems I’ve run into in 2022 with woman is

1. After we set up plans, the girl tries to change the frame of the date.

• they’ll say they want me to take them out to dinner, I don’t like when they try to change the plans. I’m curious what’s the most optimal way to handle this.

2. The other problem, and this is a different topic but basically I’ve came to the conclusion, if after getting a girls number and trying to set up a date, if we are not able to get together within a few days, it seems to fall off almost everytime. Any advice? Thanks.