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I’m new to this forum and I need some help
I was messaging this girl on tinder trying to set up a date but she’s hit me back with a shit test I don’t know how to reply
“ so you just like to get to know people threw the phone and ruin all the fun of the date” ?
It’s not a shit test she’s not comfortable going out with you
I agree that this isn't meant to test your confidence. My place for booze and netflix screams booty call. I will imply this with texts but maintain the context that im screening. "We can meet at my place and take a stroll (or have a drink, depending on buy in from the girl). If there's vibe, we can grab dinner and snuggle up for a movie". Here I might say "I'm a social guy. I learn about others in person." Then, if the convo gets going again, I would go for the meet up after some rapport building
You should not be so ambiguous about drinking gin. You could take it down a notch by saying you'll do a shot or 2 or make a mixed drink. Nobody is getting drunk off splitting some wine, but a bottle of gin is a different story. Build more comfort and make it clear you're not trying to get her wasted. You might want to even take a step back and show the interest is in her and the Netflix and gin are optional. Hope this makes sense.
Lower your emoji usage. Believe it or not using less emojis in your text game makes you seem more dominant and confident. Every now and again is fine but you wanna be the f-ing man in the convo! This just reads too girlish for me. It’s a small nitpick but it helps.
