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Long story short, ask questions if you have any. Had a SHIT life, have depression, autism, adhd and some thing else ptsd like that I'm looking in to. I've never held anyone's hand and the only "romantic" intrest i got was because people thought it would be funny if they could trick the weird boy. I'm 18 minus a bit (i know not supposed to be here but... common) and I've never held someone's fucking hand. I don't know where to start as even if I'm charmig for a while i let something slip bc the adhd and mostly it's depressing as fuck or just paranoid because of the other shit. I don't know where to even start because I don't know what's wrong with me. Don't even really know what to ask so if you all could just ask me shit as i don't fucking understand this shit...
Damn dude. I'm sorry to hear about the way that things have been going. I think your situation is far too complex for someone to be able to help you in the forums. A coach is definitely a good place to start. Someone who has good experience dealing with inner game issues. Brian from the fearless man would be my choice. In addition, it sounds like you have a legitimate condition so you probably need to work with a licensed therapist about that. It would be way too outside area of my expertise to guide you through that kinda stuff since I'm just a dating coach. wish you the best though
bro stop focusing on the negative. fuck all that negativity shit.
just work out and work on your game. you have the rest of your life to get better at things and improve your situation.
as long as you're not disfigured and stuff you're good.
you sound just like a normal teenage boy stop freaking out so much.
Are you fat or skinny? These are all just suggestions and things that worked for me I was pretty fucked up at your age too.
Join a fire crew.
Start lifting weights and eating more if you're skinny.
If you can afford them start getting some massages until you're not so fucking weird about people touching you, they often throw on hand jobs for not that much anyway. You could haggle with the massage therapist and a lot of times they'll talk to you and ask you if you have a girlfriend and stuff.
Plus what the other dude said focus on the positive.