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Context : So I met this chick on bumble & we have been going on few dates (3 dates so far) . The dates have been good & physical escalations have been slowly increasing & kissing happened on the last date & she even introduced me to her friends as well.
But here is the thing - I have been taking initiatives to meet up & we text mainly to set up the date place. And occasionally we will talk once or twice a week. These are again initiated mostly from my end. All the interactions have been good so far but my concern is that I am always initiating calls & meet up. I called her today after our date yesterday but she said she'll call me back but didn't . So should I continue the effort for few more dates (say 2-3) or just pull away now by sending a text that if she's still interested in pursuing this further.
PS: The culture here is conservative & usually the long game is the more acceptable approach.
I think the real issue is that you guys didn't smash yet. Typically after sex is when girls become really invested. So, I would just keep initiating and really try to make sex happen (obviously without being pushy). Once it does, there's a very high chance that she'll start initiating as well
Thanks Alex. That is the plan I have for our next meet, let's see how it works.
Can you post screenshots
Hey man, nothing much to post since the last few text conversations have been for coordination mostly.
