Not getting any response after the First Date

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I used Hola Linda and landed a date with this cute Mexican girl last Friday and we had an amazing date from what I would say. We had plans to head to the beach the next day which she cancelled saying she has things to do. I haven't got any response ever since. What should be my next approach??

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louis  v Avatar

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chill bro. how would you feel if someone was texting you like this.

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R

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Hahahaha yeah I fucked up.

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X

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You seem too invested and she really isn't reciprocating. It's coming off as needy. Wait a while before you try again.

Also, I would stop texting "ok" with two k's but that's just me.

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avilench . Avatar

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Agreed

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R

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I thought that as well but the date went so well that I under the impression that I should try to get another quick. Thanks for replying.

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R

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Thanks for all the responses folks.

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R

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Quick update: I texted her after a week of this and I got a positive response and another date this weekend.

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avilench . Avatar

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Unfortunately, I don’t think the date went nearly as good as you thiught according to her responses. I’m assuming you didn’t bang? Did you make out? Did you try?

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R

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We didn't bang but we kissed. I thought it went good coz she was only supposed to be there for a couple of hours as she was gonna meet her friend later but things were going good and instead of leaving her friend actually joined us during the last couple of hours.

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avilench . Avatar

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Yea man that’s actually not a good sign. You never want to agree to group dates, unless you’re gonna have a threesome, your time is valuable. You don’t have time for that shit

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Joe Bee Avatar

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i think that jacket was to be held hostage and used to your advantage in time. agreed drop the okk imho, sounds straight out gay. also "was wondering you wanna xyz.." comes off weak. instead "im thinking of doing some hiking tomorrow, you should join me"...

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avilench . Avatar

394 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

Agreed

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R

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Yeah I fucked up about the hiking line. That was something we decided we need to do so I didn't think through the statement.

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