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Basically the title, the attention I get from women is usually negative, ex: I hear women call me ew or laugh at me with their friends in public and idk why. I look about average. My tinder is dead, I got 5 likes last time I used it and one match where the woman unmatched after I sent my first message. I work as a software engineer so I thought I’d have some success but no, it’s worse then before I became somewhat successful. I got my own place to. How do I contact Alex directly? Thanks.
Are you trolling? Your pics are god awful man, your profile is legit a 0/10. I'm surprised you got 5 likes.
Your face is fine. You need to hit the gym hard, get a proper haircut, a fashion sense, and some confidence if you want success on dating apps
Not joking, I just moved to a new state for my job but I don’t know anyone here, so I just used my tripod to take a few pics. I know they’re not great but I figured it would show I’ve got my own shit.
I go to the gym but I’ve always been naturally skinny. I lift weights. Not sure how I can improve my style but I’ll give it a try. Thanks for you’re input.
For fitness,I’d look at Jay Vincent or Austin Dunham
You're probably doing something wrong with gym then, not eating enough/not using a proper routine. you should look noticeably different with 3-6 months of training.
For fashion, try r/malefashionadvice for a start.
Honestly your smv is pretty low rn. I would work on yourself for a while, maybe 6 months - 1 year. Social life, confidence, gym, fashion, grooming, hobbies. Seeing a therapist would help. Then get some really good photos and hop on the apps
Put your tinder profile on here, we can help, you can tag Alex directly at @avilench . or Indian PE at @Indian PE
PM me on IG if you want to schedule a coaching call @siralexz
Echoing what some of the other guys are saying. As a fellow skinny guy, you need to eat 3 large meals every day plus snacks plus gym 4+ days per week plus sleep 8 hours every night.
It is a grind but this is an investment in your SMV and you will thank yourself for it down the road. It's way easier to take good tinder pics when you're jacked
I’d appreciate it if you guys could help me out, I’ve tried online dating multiple times but I can never even get a full conversation. Here’s the latest pics I used for my tinder (deleted it due to no success). I’m probably gonna join your live speed dating so I can get some solid feedback. Thanks for the help.
Still none are good unfortunately. Take a look at my IG for examples I use @siralexz.
This is a purely inner game issue. Fix your narrative. The way you talk to yourself is important. Be kinder to yourself. Rework your belief system and your self love system. Desensitize yourself to the opinion of women (or men for that matter). Do uncomfortable things more often (approach women even if you know you’ll hear something negative), hit the gym (to gain confidence & improve mental health), learn how to dance, read psychological, self improvement books, etc etc
I’ve seen fat ugly sloths for men win with women just by having excellent confidence, communication skills & of course value ($, car, house). This is what you need to work on. Work on these core issues and you will instantly notice a difference. The fact you have a place of your own and a job is testament to the fact that you are winning. Take it day by day and focus on things you can work on.
As for tinder, it is purely pictures. If you don’t look good (or at least don’t look good as per your opinion) then get a nice haircut, groom well, and get a friend or photographer to click bomb ass pics of you. That’s all tinder is. Rest is text game which is what this channel is about. Learn and apply
Best of luck :)
