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Hey everyone, decided to finally take action and change my social/dating life. I am currently 19, 5'10, and I'm an Indian studying software engineering (lol) in the Netherlands . Was not social at all for most of my life so I have basically no experience at all, I haven't even kissed a girl let alone loose my virginly. Actually , my first time going out with a girl was a month ago. Went out with her a couple of times since but was too much of a pussy to do something.
I started upgrading my life a year or 2 ago. I now am working on my way to get into one of the high tech company's (Facebook, Apple, Amazon, Netflix and Google), I started competing in powerlifting (pictures below) and I play the guitar (pictures soon to come). Still struggling with a social/dating life though. I get more IOS (still not a lot) since upgrading everything but again, don't know how to escalate.
These are currently the best pictures I have, are any of these any good for online game? I can easily edit out the pimples as well.
Also given I'm going to the gym regularly, I'm getting good at the guitar (hopefully to the point to be able to perform in a year or two), keep my hair and beard tight, and work on my fashion a bit more, what else would you guys recommend for me to improve my SMV?
Any general advice would also be appreciated.
Welcome to the mastermind man. You definitely could benefit from more and better photos. Out of this bunch, 3 & 9 are okay. The rest I would scrap. I would focus more on activity photos aside from powerlifting. Take a look at my IG for examples. @siralexz. Let me know if you have other photo options as well and we can take a look. In terms of lifestyle, sounds like you're already on the right track. The only thing I'd add is getting an IG and curating lifestyle photos . think of it as your social resume
Binge on infields and replace gym with a Martial Art. I just got a story memory of an Iranian i approached and fucked right after my muay thai training
definitely get some pics of you in the gym. Alex has some pics in previous articles showing examples of other guys in the gym that look good. I think girls like guys who go to the gym but some aren't into power lifters specifically. Agree that pic #3 in the most natural and probably best to show power lifting.
Have a buddy shoot like 50 or 100 shots of you playing the guitar until you get a couple you really like (preferably not looking at the camera while you're playing). I also think a pooring wine shot and playing with a pet shot (even if not you pet) would be good too. Then you just need to get an outdoor photo without your glasses and shows your face well that will work as your main photo.
congrats on taking action to change your life. Keep it up!