Loading…
About two months ago, I dropped some new photos on my dating profiles. These are killer photos, scoring in the high nines on photofeeler for attractiveness.
Since then, dates have been much easier to arrange and have been with more attractive women.
I have been on 30 dates, but only managed to close 3 (2 of which were relatively low quality)
For context-
I’m over 6 foot, muscular and quite good looking
My dating confidence has improved recently -
I’m relaxed and confident
The girls laugh at my jokes
I am escalating smoothly
The conversation flows well
They generally seem relaxed and at ease
Typically, the date will consist of an hour or so having a drink in a pub, then I will try to kiss them in the car park afterwards.
18 out of the 30 have kissed me. With a few of them getting quite turned on if I kiss their neck or pull on their hair.
However 90% of the time I either get ghosted or told that they aren’t interested.
Before I had these new photos. I was pulling about 1 in 5 round to my house on a second date where we would always hook up. A kiss after the first date was usually quite a good indicator that they were interested in coming round to fuck.
Admittedly, these women on average were lower quality than the ones I have been going on dates with recently, although some of them were still pretty hot.
I’m at a complete loss to explain what is happening
Has anybody experienced this?
Any idea what could be going wrong?
This is simple, youre being friendzoned after the date. This is happening because youre coming off as a "nice guy"--This means someone who doesnt go for what he wants and plays it safe, which is what's happening on the dates. You should be fucking at least 1/2 the girls you make out w. the reason youre not is because youre not really going for it. Youre giving up too soon. You need to try to close every girl on the first date and be persistent. Dont just settle for a makeout.
Even if you dont get laid, the girl will respect you a lot more and she certainly wont friendzone you. Dont be scared to take social risk, or even creeping her out. The worst case scenario she says no but at least she wont friendzone yoi
Thanks, that’s exactly what I’ve been doing - Kino for comfort, making sure the girl feels as ease at all times.
I guess with the play it safe method of going for the kiss at the end I was just hoovering up the low hanging fruit.
And now that I think of it most of the chicks I closed before the photo upgrade were either same day lay or I tried to get them back on the same day.
Just about to watch all your videos on building sexual tension.
Awesome, glad I can help
As someone who's had the same issue, I just had a girl I made out with and I think she got the same impression since we had a heavy makeout session at the end, but I didn't push for the f close cause it was 2 AM and I thought it was too late. Starting to think I should have just shot my shot anyways
You got friendzoned. Something was off that you didnt tell us. Since we cant see how interaction on the date went (if it did go like you said, you wouldnt be friendzoned), post some screenshots of texts with girls, so we can see whats up
