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Been talking to this baddie since yesterday and today out the blue she asked to meet. Problem was I was already with a different girl. But I don't want to lose my shot with this one... She hasn't replied after I said raincheck... What's the move boys? Hit her up again tomorrow? Should I be apologetic? Give it a few days? Could she be mad? Someone, how do I move forward with her???
I hate the good impression text. I hate the double text to say you are not available. I hate calling her babe if it was the first time.
But this should still be fine, reengage 2-3 days after last message with Ryan gosling meme or similar
Agreed with this ^
Don’t be apologetic. If asked, just make it seem like you were busy being high value doing some business or something. Obviously don’t say you were out, especially with another girl.
Thanks for the feedback gentlemen. No need to do anything, she just engaged with me again and we facetimed for a bit. I never even heard the term double text until I saw one of Alex’s videos saying how it’s not something you want to do. But it’s my texting style, I don’t do walls of text like I’ve seen others do. I break up my text the way I would speak naturally, and really helps drive some comedic timing. I can see double text looking bad if they are like an hour apart from each other. But when I’m texting in real time, it’s just how I do it(see sample text with one of my boys).... Would be a tough habit to break if it really is that much of a detriment.
Oh and the babe part is an inside joke from the night before when we spoke on the phone. She was jokingly saying how I needed to delete Tinder because I was her man now and I’d reply with a “yeah sure thing babe, whatever you say”.
And I guess it did come off as high value that I didn’t drop what I was doing to see her... and no, wasn’t going to tell her about the other chick either. I’m not retarded lol
I'd re-engage and re-soft close now