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I’ve attached the latest text SC. We’ve met up 5 times so far, 3 at mine, 2 at hers. She came straight over to mine the first time but before meeting up the 5th time I fucked up & sent her a SC of me talking to another girl (I know lol) so she didn’t cancel the date but just confronted me when we were smoking in the balcony. She wanted to not be used (wants to go to dinner) and said if ur talking to other 10 girls that’s ew. She said she’s talking to others too but is an emotional wreck & started crying. I said it’s cool I like you but instead of dinner let’s go watch the sunrise. She agreed. After that we had sex & cuddled. She hit me up again the next day letting me know of the days she’s available as she’s been doing and I lay out a plan. Then she doesn’t confirm, texts late & flakes. Idk if the whole talk on the 5th date ruined it or if I should just let her go. I’d appreciate some help. Thanks gents
If this is the first time she's flaked it might be she's legit tired from work. You've hung out several times so she's already invested.
Rengage in a couple days and re-assess.
Confront her about the flaking and remind her how importantyour time is. Stop trying to save this chick you care way too much about. Be ready to burn down your situationship RTFN.
Be ready leave a woman with your head up and start taking action that comes from a place of abundance and respect. More than likely you bonded too much with her that might be why you trying to save it. Time to stop hanging on and be ok with whatever the outcome is.