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PREMISE (Spring)
Ms. Latina and I met at a friend's b-day party sometimes around May/April of this year. The friend in question was actually a previous hookup. Shortly thereafter Ms. Latina and I started texting back and forth. We met up for sushi a week or two later. Fooled around some. Then planned to meet again. The problem is that something always came up. If I didn't respond soon enough, or started getting in my head about things, it would start to hurt the vibe. Eventually, things fizzled out for a few months. Until I started re-engaging in September.
It's worth noting that she's a 6" busty Latina from Columbia who's into the "Daddy" type. Being that she's also a bartender, her hours of work and sleep are different. So no doubt a lot of guys are hitting on her. We have some established relationship, as well as history, which can be rekindled again.
SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER
Started making contact again with value offering texts. A combination of memes, pictures/videos of self, travel, and funny/interesting statements. Recently, I sent her an old Halloween costumer with a simple, "Happy Halloween." She responded days later with a video of her own costume. Wasn't sure what to say. So I decided to leave it alone. If I could change anything. I might have "Liked" her picture (Apple iPhone's can do that), and left it at that. That way I gave her some soft validation without feeding her ego too much.
PRESENT
Followed up by sending a clip from an IG story with another girl. Saying, "Hands down the best pho in the city." Haven't received anything yet. Wasn't expecting to. But I'm trying different approaches. Alex had previously mentioned that we became "texting buddies" and hadn't been doing much push/pull or takeaways. So it's a delicate balance between stoking the fire but remaining high value in the process.
GOAL
Have Ms. Latina to invest once more, change the frame, and get her on dates. Work through sticking point that include: a general understanding of the fundamentals of Game, push/pull and takeaways, compliance ladders, frame control, getting stuck inside my own head.
Just to clarify, did you guys actually bang? If so, on how many different occasions?
While her and I didn't have sex, we did fool around some. Although we had met that one time. Plans to see each other again had fallen through. Vibe started to go cold because one thing or another got in the way. Although it's somewhat there.
I think there in lies the issue man. Typically when you get close to banging a girl, but don’t and then some time goes by she will start acting cold. It’s because her ASD kicks in and she needs to justify what happened
“I didn’t have sex with him, there must be a reason. Well he was a bit forward. Kind of rude actually. Fuck him”
Vs
“I had sex with him. There must be a reason. He was a bit foreword. So ballsy. I like that, most guys aren’t so bald”
