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A girl and I matched on Tinder just today. Solid 8.5, if not a 9. Latina. 6' tall.
She's a lean busty girl who's self-proclaimed to be both "bossy" and particular about the men she's into. Tall, masculine, and white. As for myself, I'm two out of the three. Although being vertically challenged won't stop me with this girl.
It seems from her bare bones bio that she's up for either something romantic or sexual. But with the right person. There's a spark there. But I'm having trouble building it into something more. Here's the conversation thus far...
ME: Saw your thing and thought, "she seems interesting."
HER: Hey
ME: What's up
HER: Not much
ME: You must work out
(she's got great legs)
HER: I do
ME: Smoke or drink.
HER: Both
ME: Really 🤔 How adventurous would you say you are on a scale of 1-10.
(tried a different approach to test the waters for escalation)
HER: 15
ME: Is that so
It's been a few hours since then. Yes, she's probably been on. The good thing is that she's responded, even if it has been only a few words. While I'm not new to text game. You could say I'm still a beginner.
I don’t want to be bearer of bad news man, but she is responding with one or two word answers. That is very typically bad sign. I think your best bet is to give it a day or two and follow up with “don’t be shy”
Appreciate the input. Will give that a try and take it from there. Two questions. Would you have approached this differently. Also, were there any mistakes on my end.
Once you've accepted that it's probably already toast (not through any fault of yours) you can "make or break" investment by opening up your questions. "Most adventurous thing you've done this year is". You either get 10 words back or none...
Nah your text game was fine. I might have gone with a differently opener. Something bit simpler but other then that I doubt it was anything you said
