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Hi guys, could use some ideas here
I met this girl on bumble & had gone on a date . The vibe is good & we are planning for a second date but the main issue is that logistics is a major issue. We went on a public date & it's very difficult to escalate since culture here is very conservative. Furthermore, it's even difficult to get a proper air bnb / hotel room booking, since folks are conservative here, they require marital proof to give room to a couple. Since it's quite common (culturally appropriate thing here) to live with parents here even if one is earning well, we can't even go to each other's place
So how do I close ? If we keep meeting in public places, the date would become platonic & the vibe will go away. What would be the best strategy to keep the sexual vibe strong?
Only opportunity I see is that I have to be out of town for a work trip and I can invite her to join me.
I think you should be able to a nice hotel without showing proof that you're married. Where do you live exactly?
India. The nice hotels require proof & the lesser known hotels are not safe (local mafia & cops tend to raid ) & extremely unsanitary.
Get the room for yourself first.....have dinner......then later take her with you to the room?....or do they check every fucking couple that comes in the fucking door?.....lol
Maybe be carrying a briefcase? Then you could say it's your secretary and you need a quiet place to work on a big fucking project for your company.
Getting the room first also has the advantage that you can get it ready for her.....music playing......incense.......etc.
I have a nice leather laptop case with extra pockets. I got everything in there with the laptop. Hair brush, toothpaste/brush, extra toothbrush for her, bluetooth speaker, condoms, Pjur lotion, incense, mini bottles of booze, etc etc.
You could tell her you want to show her some cool pictures on your laptop while you're out.....excuse to go to the room......
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