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I met this girl in a bar at a friends birthday and we chatted a bit and there seemed to be some good chemistry and she was interested. Didn’t talk to her a lot as I had not seen a lot of my friends at the party for a while so just a few odd conversations throughout the night but there was definitely a vibe. Didn’t manage to get her information before she left though.
Last night she came up on my tinder (I am at uni so I am only in the area when I’m home visiting family) and she has her Instagram in her bio. We didn’t match and I travelled back to uni today so unlikely I’ll be coming up on her tinder anyway. I’m thinking of DMing her on Instagram but how should I go about it? Do I mention I got her Instagram from tinder?
"Haha. Just saw you on Tinder.."
I'd avoid mentioning about getting insta from tinder. She is prob knows cause she gets a million guys messaging her on insta from tinder lol. The goal is that your needs to stand out among others and she needs to recognize that you are from the party. Do you remember anything specific you talked about or something she was wearing that you mentioned? You can use that to get her attention or just be like something on these lines:
"Ah you're that cutie from the bar who I met. Looks like Zuck is trying to complete our unfinished love story by showing me your profile on insta"
Good point, yeah I mentioned I liked how she did her hair like 80s style and she said she liked my mullet