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Long story short, I wake up to a notification on instagram, one of the instagram fitness models I used to date slightly famous on Insta and tik tok requested to follow me after she blocked me since summer 2019. So even tho she’s attractive, I dont nessarily like her. She is crazy.
Something was fishy so I dm’d her
Me: ?
Her: what
Me: why did you request to follow me?
Her: why not
How should I reply to this? Im not gonna let her follow me if she doesn’t care at all. But obviously if you had someone blocked for 2 years and then requested to follow, there is probably a reason. I just wanna know
Keep in mind, she is pretty crazy and I dont want her to think she can just use me to be one of her followers/insta supporters. I accidentally matched with her on bumble in January and turned her down then.
How you should reply depends on what you want to happen next. What do you want to happen next?
dont want her to think she can just use me to be one of her followers/insta supporters
The mistake is giving a shit what she thinks
Thank you, that is a really hq reply. Definitely agree with you.
Goal would be a relationship, now that she is done with college and making money. However, knowing her. It would probably be a long shot from my last experience. But I guess I never would know. Maybe last time I just cared to much about what she did.
Edit: thinking back to last time, it was very stressful with her and I am not sure if I would wanna go through that again. However, since 2019 ive learned not to care as much and that could have been a good part of the issue.
Dude. If you're not into her, then who gives a shit. Just focus on chicks who matter and don't give this a second thought
