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I've been getting the same result for nearly two months now, Match with girls, they send texts with a lot of investment and enthusiasm, set up date (usually for the next day or two days out), on the morning of the date I send her a confirmation text... radio silence. If I'm lucky, she gives me some obviously bs excuse and doesn't offer to reschedule.
I should add that I've been using dating apps on and off since 2014 and always had decent success. I know the flake rate for OLD has always been high but after the pandemic it's off the charts. You'd think after/during quarantine chicks would be willing to meet in person but that doesn't seem to be the case at all. Pre-pandemic if I set up 5 dates on Tinder, usually 2-3 would flake. Now, the last ~15 girls have flaked on me the day of the meetup.
This isn't happening with just Tinder btw, but also Bumble and Hinge. Is anybody else struggling with this?
Literally 90% of girls I chat to seem interested in the first 2-3 messages then just stop replying. It's actually starting to get demotivating. Feel like I should just go out and day/nightgame instead of wasting this much time on dating apps if nearly every girl stops replying. I'm based in London, UK btw
Flake-demic, i am lucky to get 1 out of 15 man, these are hard times brother.
Yeah it's ghost nation out here man. The U.S is slowly becoming more haunted day by day. Been getting flaked on a lot as well
Yeah man, chicks have been more flakey lately. 15 in a row is a lot by any standard. Are you confirming the day of the date and shooting them a reminder the day before? Make sure you follow all the best practices to minimize the flake. Also, what city do you live in
Yeah I’ve been on apps for 8 years and I’ve never seen it this bad.
I’m in Columbus, OH. All my dates are set 1 or 2 days after we text. I always send confirmation texts the morning of. I’ve been doing that even before I discovered PWF.