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So everything goes well lets assume. I have had this problem where I invite a girl over for some wine and cannot finish. I pour the wine for both of us and just ask how her day was and let her do 75-80% of the talking as I slowly kino. Some how they always hit me with oh lets take it slow and/or im not that type of girl, let's be friends etc. I obviously say no to just being friends. I have had some luck before but this has happened recently. Question: what to do in convos or what game should I do to avoid scenarios like this?
It could be a number of things. You’re probably just being too in your head about the outcome. I mean seriously, why do even care about impressing. Focus on making sure you’re having fun, bro. Maintain laser eye contact, relax your body and speech. You’re literally at your place, a place where you “should” feel the most comfortable. Let that comfort bleed through. You could do a lot of things: put on music and dance with them, play 3 question game, have a tickle fight (yikes...), etc. Don’t limit yourself.
Cheers bro!
Great response bro
Next time you get the "Let's be friends" speech, say "Friends with benefits? Good idea". If she tells you she's not that type of girl, say "Oh, playing hard to get? Stop! That turns me on" as you continue to escalate. Usually, when girls say that kind of stuff it's because they don't want to feel slutty and want you to be 100% responsible for sex... Or they're still not ready for it and need to feel a little more turned on and comfortable.
Maybe joke with her and say “yeah friends” in a sarcastic tone and wink or something
likely, this is a sign that you are not conveying a sexual vibe or creating sexaul tension. There's not really a quote technique that can fix this. You can check my video on how to physically escalate. Pay attention to the vibe. And honestly reflect on weather your interaction have that same vibe or not. Another thing you can do is sexualize over text to make it easier for you during the meetup.
