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Unfortunately most of these messages were on snapchat so I don't have screenshots.
I had previously mentioned to this girl that I built a night club in my room. She said she wanted to see it, but I was moving at the time so had to dismantle it.
Yesterday she messaged me saying "You've moved into your new place now right?"
I wanted to playfully misinterpret this and replied "Inviting yourself round already?"
Looking back at this, I think I wasn't misinterpreting at all, but correctly interpreting. By replying as I did I make her feel slutty, so she doesn't feel as comfortable meeting me.
My questions:
Do you agree with my assessment?
If yes, how can I fix it?
I would either do what Eric says (higher % in my eyes) or wait 48h then send
"Bc I wouldn't mind at all 😏"
Thanks for the advice.
Don't think I explained well as I'm not re-opening. Just trying to be reassuring after what I said.
I'll try a variation of your last comment
Wait a couple of days and reengage (with a meme of Ryan Gosling saying “happy Monday” (depending on the day you will reengage her)
Could be right. You can fix it by showing you don't judge, and that you like it.
Wait 48 hrs. "Didn't take you for the shy type. I like a girl that knows what she wants (or something like that. / an assertive girl w/e)