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I met up with this sexy Mexican chick yesterday. We end up getting coffee and go bowling. Once we finished it got a little awkward since I honestly didn't know what to do at this point of the date since my parents were home. So, I just basically invited myself to her place and agreed without any hesitation. I go up to her place, we take off our jackets, shoes, etc. We both get on the bed and just watch a movie on netflix. We end up cuddling for the entire movie while I play with her hair and she just holds my hand. Movie finished and it was 2:30am and she had class early the next day so I wanted her to get some sleep. I give her a hug and I’m on my way home.
Now, I’m not great at reading girls' ques but I'm pretty sure she was going for a kiss I just didn't pick up on that. Anyways, I didn’t initiate anything because I just don't know how to. Or how would I even bring that up when I’m with her on the bed?
Any and all help would be appreciated. Cheers!
I like what GG said here. Though it adds a bit more pressure to the kiss for you. If you guys ended up in her bed, she obviously likes you. No girl that sees you as a friend would invite you to her place, then to her bed, then start cuddling with you. Everything that was going on here were indicators of interest and desire from her. She was obviously waiting on you to make the move, but since it didn't happen, she may have some doubts fester in her head, though it's not impossible to reverse the situation. What I would've done (for future reference under similar circumstances, different woman) is gone for it while we're cuddling. You're already doing the right things by playing with her hair (and mind you, girls loving having their hair played with so long as you know how to get them aroused while doing so.). Thus, if you're touching her in the correct arousing places and playing with her hair in a way that makes her relaxed and turned on, I would kiss her forehead. Lightly grip the back of her hair, turn her to you a little bit and kiss her forehead, see how she responds. If she closes her eyes and just lets you do it, then I'd move to bringing my other free hand to the side of her face and maybe brush the hair on that side of her face behind her ear, again, see how she responds. As long as she's responding well, keep escalating. I, then, would move to kissing her cheeks and slowly move down to the neck area, using my hands to move her head around slowly so I can kiss where I need to. She'll get turned on enough by your touch and the feeling of you gripping her hair ever so slightly and from there, I like to tease the girl by getting super close to her lips so our noses are touching and just hold that tension. Wait to see if she initiates. If she does, great, start making out but don't hesitate to pull away and go back to the movie. If she doesn't , that's fine too. You can keep holding it and hold firm eye contact then you decide if you want to kiss her there or not.
She had you in her bed. That’s the most you’ll get from a girl to say she wants to hook up.
Now she might look at you as
A) super soft pussy who doesn’t go after what you want or
B) super mysterious guy that doesn’t need vagina because he gets twice everyday
Let her know you had fun yesterday and we should repeat again but you’ll bring some ice cream and toppings for a fun dessert.
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Two ways to go for romantic first kiss:
Give her some fruit to eat when you guys are together and then tell her you’re watching your calories so you can’t eat anymore but you still want to taste it
Look up and think for a few seconds as she wonders how that’s even possible and then pull her in and give her the slowest, least rushed kiss of your life and when you pull back leave your nose touching here before giving a second soft kiss. The more relaxed you are about it the more she’ll want to initiate herself.
Second way similar to the first but instead of surprising her with the kiss you can give her soft warning by being silly and putting some chocolate drizzle or whip cream on her lips
“That looks tasty”
Then lean in and give her a kiss.
That's gold right there. Ill make sure to do that on our second date. Appreciate it
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