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Pulled a hot 22 year old yesterday (went to her place), made her cum multiple times and in the morning when she drove me back home i got her number as well and said :,, I am gonna text you''.
She made clear that this is a one time only thing before fucking, afterwards she was okay with giving me her number, she also said she has got a bunch of other dudes to fuck over the next few days (shittest ?).
So how do i approach this to get her to become my fuck buddy (the sex was amazing)? What should i text her or do next ? (Did not text her yet)
Any advice is welcome.
Thanks in advance.
What you dont wanna do is just text her random things now and asking how she is etc. Text her but make your purpose clear
Either be honest and say "the other night was 🔥, lets do it again" or just "what are u doing tonight, i wanna come over"
Doubt anything will work if she said it was just a ONS but u never know
Yeah this is good too, possibly would work better. Def do not text her random friendly pleasantries like I often do with older women I date. I like the frame here, it's about what you want and your prerogative. My suggestion is also about holding frame but Jan knows that age range much better than I do lol!
Should have been more clear on the "ONS" part, she changed her opinion after the ONS and when i said give me your number she said :,, I am surprised you even want it, i thought you think i am weird" (banter + push pull), when she dropped me off she also said :,,Hit me up when you are going out again" so i think she is invested especially since i mostly got her compliance in our conversations .
Bruh go get a std test lol. She thottin
Lmaoo
You 1st off have to hold frame that you aren't even competing with other hypothetical dudes.
I would text her in maybe 3 days. This is my style and maybe not "perfect game", but I'd look to offer value, be man to woman, and be authentic. I'd write probably 2-3 sentences, a small condensed paragraph basically. Putting myself out there with no fear and no apology. A really terse, short text in this case would be transparently defensive imo.
Other guys may disagree with me. But the one thing nobody can ever compete with you is your authenticity...and very VERY few dudes are really relaxed-as-themselves, owning who they are powerfully, if that makes sense
https://www.playingfire.com/how-to-see-a-girl-a-second-time-complete-guide-to-retention/
Here you go man!
Well done duder! This one sounds like she's in the streets. The fact that you threw down so well in the bedroom is super advantageous. Don't text too much, get too romantic, or be needy for validation. The less attached you feel to this type, the better your odds of retention, imo. She'll text when she's ovulating again ;)
“Don’t you find sex gets better with a person the more comfortable you are? FWB is all I’m looking for.”
UPDATE: So far she did not text back, i went with a ,, Ah, a woman of many words i see" 2 days ago, should i keep trying or count my losses ?