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A big thing I used to notice in the PWF FB group was guys struggling to text girls they meet in real life. Generally speaking, there are some subtle but important differences between how you would text a girl you meet on Tinder and a girl you meet in real life. I wanted to kick start the Forums with a quick value post giving you guys an example of how to text those mysterious real-life girls.
This was about a 5 minutes interaction on the street when I was walking home one evening. I noticed that this cute latina was holding 2 phones, so I opened with the joke about that. I could tell she was attracted to me right away (strong eye contact, giggling, etc. ) . After a minute of bullshitting I started figuring out her logistics. They weren't great. So, I decided not to push the same night close and just grab her number. She was very receptive.
Normally I wouldn't try to make out with the girl I just meat on the street (could backfire, can kill tension, etc.). However, her body language was very receptive, and I had a feeling it will make the number even more solid. As I was giving her a good-bye hug, I held eye contact for 10 seconds building tension and then went for the kiss. She was super receptive. I cut the kiss pretty quickly to leave even more tension before saying good bye.
The rest was done over text. As you can see, I kept it simple and smooth. I knew she was attracted to me so any attempt at "trying to sell myself" will only loose me value. I just smoothly moved things forward to a wine date at my place and handled logistics.
Simplicity is key. A common mistake, I see guys will make with real life numbers is over complicating things and ultimately losing value in the process. Once again, the goal is to keep thing as simple and smooth as possible.
You texted her "Alex ;)" at 12:30 AM? When did the initial interaction happen?
Did you seed the date or figure out her schedule at all during the initial conversation?
The convo happened around midnight. I texted her withing the first 30 minutes. Yes, I seeded the date, but no, I did not go into her schedule
Thanks for sharing Alex.
BTW - not sure if you're still at this address, but if so, you might want to blur it out on the screenshot.
I am going to keep it for massive PWF slumber parties !!!
Where is my invite?
Thanks for sharing Alex, great post. Quick question: you texted her the next afternoon. Was it intentional? Is there any time window for the first text? Would you text her differently if you wouldn't have gone for the kiss?
I texted her half an hour after parted ways man. it will still be the same opener even without the kiss
I meant the meetup text next day. I have been trying to figure out the timing. I wait a few days (not a good either) before the first text (sometimes I only text my name during the interaction, also looks like not a good idea). Just saw the youtube video on this, it was very helpful, thanks.
So would you agree that if you daygame and exchange numbers with a girl, you text her "Name ;)" if she doesn't respond to this text.... are you done? Also do you wait until the interaction is over or do you send the text while you are still in set? What is strategically better
If she doesn't respond to the first text, I will usually follow up with one more. But the odds a way lower.I don't text the girl during the interaction, that can come off as insecure, suggesting you get a lot of fake numbers.
