How to sexualize / escalate pulled convo?

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so lets say you pulled the girl to your place and you're sitting on your coach etc, what are some of yall go to convos to escalate/sexualize and close?

I know alex has a physicality video but would like more convo topic ideas that can make it smoother

Thanks

Bob Rao

Firstly, if this was a pull from a club or from a date, there should be some level of sexualisation or man to woman frame in which case you should just be taking her straight to your room. If this was a platonic pull, some ways to sexualise are
-previous boyfriends
-crazest/open-minded things she's done
-sexual innuendos/misinterpretations

chaz

interesting but yeah, im talking about sort of straight from online app to home where she hasn't even seen/heard you IRL yet so its def more platonic than pulling from a club/date

curious how you go about bringing up previous boyfriends to sexualize and close?
which sexual innuendos/misinterpretations do you think have the most success?

Bob Rao

Haha nope, quite the opposite actually. If she's coming to yours, she's 100% dtf, whether there was any sexualisation in your text interaction or not. So you can lead her straight to your room. She knows what's up.

You can just ask "Have you had a boyfriend before" "When was your last relationship" or you can preface with "I have a question" "I'm curious about something". From there, some routes are you can ask her why they broke up.. "let me guess.. the sex was bad" if she says yes, "sorry to hear that.. most guys don't know what they're doing etc" and show sexual authority/dirty talk. You can talk about your own dating history and DHV. It doesnt have to be explicitly sexual, the fact that you guys are talking about dating history implicitly places a sexual frame on the interaction
Any words like long. hard, wet for example are an opportunity to misinterpret or say "that's what she said"

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Herb S

Re 2.:
One that I've been using lately is to say, in jest, "I only have sex after the 10th date by the way". That leads to a fun discussion, you can play around with it and often times she brings it up later again "But you only have sex after so many more dates...".
What I often do, say if you bounce to a different bar is to say, "see, we can already count this as our 2nd date" etc.