How to revive this

Your last message is doing the most, it makes more sense if you had said "I have just the plan for us" and she asks what it is.

You should've just said "My kinda girl, we should split a bottle on my romantic balcony sometime soon :)"

pretty textbook.

"If you're not into delicious wines & cheeses I'd totally understand"

The last message is too long and the second part sounds fake. Should've just said "Great, we should split a bottle soon" or something to that effect.

You could try a takeaway here to recover.