How to respond to slight teasing

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Screenshot says it all. My proposed reply : “Going by your IG feed, that makes the two of us 😏”

Just wondering if this is already neg territory/too harsh or even butthurt. First time was called on this, most girls just focus on the romantic date part lol

Context : her IG feed is, as you guessed it, full of selfie collections and majestic beach/bikini poses

8 comments

Alejandro X

Hey guys, just updating my convo with this chick.

To recap :

saw her on Tinder, messaged her first on IG (after it became apparent that we didn’t match). She didn’t notice it as I guess it went to her spam
But later on we eventually matched, so I messaged her there (hence the earlier screenshots). She followed me on IG as well
after a follow-up message on Tinder, she told me to just message her on IG
and I did, and what follows are the new screenshots attached to this message (the disappearing photo is of a bottle of french wine, while my voice message is me pronouncing its name correctly as I speak French)

My problem is I dunno how to reengage, whether a takeaway or a fresh reopen. Normally I’d just do either, but with the way our convo developed, it seems a bit off if I do either (my last message, the voice message, doesn’t really call for a reply so it would be weird to call her out. But if i reopen her again, I feel like she will just brush it off like she’s already done previously)

Alejandro X

Update : she just reacted to another one of my stories, which is exactly my point. I need to steer the direction towards asking the date rather than just a low-investment back-and-forth

Jake E null

“Mhm. You seem like my type “

Alejandro X

So I eventually decided on my line (“Going by your IG feed, that makes the two of us 😏”). Sent that Friday noon. No reply as of now (Sunday morning)

If it helps anything, she actually followed me on Insta (when we first matched). So when I eventually send a follow up text/reopen her, wondering if I should continue on Tinder or on IG

Luis Fernandez

Next time don’t bother getting their instagram just get the number

Persian Beast

“Yep, hopefully that’s not too intimidating for you 😏”

Venee C

It depends do u know her in real life or not if not just banter for little bit other wise there is no built for date so girl flakes easily

Alejandro X

Nope, this is on Tinder a dating app so this is my first interaction with her

So yeah I guess my question is if my proposed reply is already passable “banter”. Just hesitating if it sounds a little too defensive/butthurt

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