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Hey all.
Recently had a date (3 days ago) with a girl who is a 9/10 in my opinion. Very much my type in looks. We had our first date 3 days ago and I led it to my apartment. We made out and while I was escalating she revealed she was a virgin (shes 18). She confirmed this to me because she really couldn’t give head but I told her it was good. I told her we’re gonna make her first time special and we cuddled for the rest of the date. She definitely didn’t want to leave but I didnt want to rush sex. She asked me what my body count was and I told her honestly its a bit under 10. Idk if i shouldve told her
This girl was literally swooning over me and my body (gym paid off, also very dominant). Was very clingy to me and told me several times I was basically perfect. Kept wanting to kiss me throughout the whole date. I dropped her off at the train station to end the date. Messaged her to make sure she got home. Then let her open me a day after the date and now we have a second one setup tomorrow (again in my apartment, 3 days after the first one). It was very easy to set up and Im sure shes very high interest atm. The only thing in which Im dissapointed is that she texts very dry incomparison to her clingyness irl. I actually liked how clingy she was irl
I find myself simping in my head over this girl as she’s very much my type. I really dont want to mess this up. I’m planning on giving her the ultimate sexual experience tomorrow so she gets even more attracted to me. What else can I do to keep her interested and start a relationship? i’ve had to contain myself several times not validating her too much throughout the date and after
From what you are saying, this girl for sure likes you and she definitely wants you to take charge and sleep with her. Start with making her feel comfortable, lots of foreplay to get her ready and just go for it, be dominant, lead, give her the ultimate sexual experience (and continue to show her/teach her new things) she will be HOOKED (shes a virgin so this will be easier for you). Don't simp, be confident and LEAD. Women want to feel security, protection and feel like you are a leader. I would be careful not to get into a relationship too soon, you just met each other and you have to get to know her more. Continue dating, then move to being exclusive and then once you both know each other better you can make her your gf.
Appreciate the advise bro.
I rescheduled (with pain in my heart lmao) for sunday since i got really sick tonight. Should I not text her the coming 2 days until the day of the date?
I would keep the convos nice and short via text. Maybe wish her typical happy new year text, or "feeling better and super nice and fit for our date ;)", "have your outfit picked out for our romantic date?" and then like day of confirm the date time, etc.
Yeah man. I think the mistake you made is not trying to bang her. A girl can say she's super interested but sex is the ultimate way of showing that. Words by themselves don't mean shit. I would not focus on "keeping her interested". Instead, set up another date and bang her this time.