How to handle situation point of no return?

Hey, just got off a date with a girl that I thought was going to be chill, like just walking near the river and get to know each other, but mid date she said she wasnt looking for anything serious so I just thought to my self she wasnt very wife material so I asked her if she wanted to come to my car because it was cold and we would go somewhere. She choose a parking lot nearby that had no one there. I only kissed her at that moment, and I tried to make sex happen so that I wouldnt go to point of no return. She was tripping if people would see her, but there was no one there. I kept trying to convince (because I could tell she was horny by the way we were kissing) , and then I just pulled my dick out and she sucked a bit and then I told her to take off her pants so thst I could fuck her she said no, then I tried the same to lick her pussy she said no. I tried convicing a bit more and then she just said she wasnt feeling comfortable and I said its ok, I wont try no more, and I took her home.
Tips on how to handle these type of situations? Happened 3 times in a short span.
Maybe I should get a place of my own lol..

Also, should I even text her anything?