I recently got instagram from a girl on Tinder. I texted her a few days later commenting her InstaStory (she was somewhere in a forest for a walk)
I texted her "That's what I call 'vibes'" but she hasn't even read it.
It's almost two weeks later now, I haven't reopened her yet since I was bussy and didn't want to fuck up. She's got over 2K followers. She's 19 and quite hot on her age.
Details:
- I softclosed her succesfully on Tinder. Then she said that she uses instagram more and sent me a nick.
- solid game from my perspective - no fuck ups so far, should still have a solid value in her eyes
- can't share screen shots, it's in Czech, and the translation wouldn't be very cogent.
Question is, how would you follow up in situation like this? How do you reopen properly?
Thank's a lot fellas
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Nope, the convo was solid. I opened her, she responded quite well, I even softclosed her with "bottle of wine" text which she even clicked "like" to and said "we should then". I followed up by "what's your schedule like in these 3 following days". She didn't respond and I did the "if your shy, I can understand that" take away after 5 days and she responded with "I'm not, sorry, I just don't use Tinder as much as insta. You can add me, I spend more time there".
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the mistake here is getting a girls instagram from tinder, that a suboptiaml strategy, you want to move from tinder to text, as from instagram your competing against 100s of guys in her dms
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I've just come back from a date with a girl from Tinder and I actually moved her from Tinder to insta as well. It was much better regarding available voice memos, pics, giphs etc. And funnily enough she even showed me her Tinder and I was the only guy that was able to get her out and meet in person (and your videos have played totally zero part in that ;})
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how will i ever sleep at night