Loading…
haven't had a girlfriend in a long time because i've been scared of opening up and getting hurt because of my relationship with my mom and some of my close friends in the past. i've been trying to just bang chicks and be emotionally distant but it's made it so that most of the time i don't get past the first or second date cuz i don't give a shit or i care too much and then i start getting weird and needy. i've also noticed that i can't just reveal a bunch of shit about myself, or at least i feel like if i do then the girl will get put off.
how do i connect with a woman emotionally in a way that does not reveal too much, and allows me to actually feel something instead of numbness?
thats a pretty deep question that I dont think im well suited to answer. Therapy is something that can help a lot here. I personally have done therapy in the past nd it was very helpful, but for a different issue.
I can tell you think , I also have a hard time connecting with strangers . it takes a lot of time before Im comfortable enough to be vulnerable, but, that never stopped me from being able to get into a relationship.
You cant have a super deep relationship without vulnerability but you can definitely get into one and get the ball rolling. But like I said, this is one of the few things where I prob wouldnt be able to help you substantially
Thanks Alex, have been putting it off but I'll get back into therapy then. Do you think I should still be doing game while this is still an issue?
yea why not?
It looks like you're unstable emotionally and mentaly. I suggest to first know who you are and what you want, then hang out with friends and then and only then talk to girls
