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I have no issues getting a first date lay and normally have a good time with the girl but somewhere between the second and third date I normally get "I'm not looking to date right now" the reasons have been anything from a lack of trusting me, to not feeling good enough.
I normally don't text the girls too much in between and carry on running game but wonder if showing more interest might be a better policy
I don't think it's that. I think it's just lack of attraction on the girl's part. There's something you're doing that's making them lose attraction/interest
One of these girls, in person we fucked 8 times on the first night. By the day of the second date neither of us had made an effort to confirm plans and I got a missed call followed by that message. I said ‘don’t be stupid we clicked’ and we ended up seeing each other. Do you think the losing interest is happening over text between dates
It's impossible to say based on this information but I will say though that if a girl says "I'm not looking to date right now" she was either looking just for a ONS or she got the vibe you were looking for an actual relationship.
What types of dates do you normally do with these girls?
Why would me looking for a relationship be an issue? One of these girls I’m referring to asked me on the first date if I saw her romantically and I said no, she then said it can grow in time etc.
Date wise I always do a fuck date at mine for the first and if I get on with them I’ll take them for a drink on the second.
Because there are lots of girls on tinder who do not want a relationship.
The first date you're doing is good but not sure about that second date. I usually just invite girls back to my place again for the second date.
