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Girl sent what might be a shit test. I feel that my response to her message was not strong enough, maybe a bit too wordy as well. How do I get around this and recover the conversation. I got some advice from the Facebook group, for the last message.
The possible line I have are "sound like a plan?" Both pings and leads her to answer. However it might be too direct and low value.
in general I don't hate your response.
There were three opportunities that you missed I think since it is clear she is DTF since I have never interacted with a girl who brought up getting out of a shower on her that wasn't trying to have sex.
If she says she can't tonight then you move into the soft close for that week.
I also think instead of saying "what's your drink of choice" you should have used Alex's line "no worries, I'll make you a amazing Shirly Temple, what's your schedule like this week?"
But if you want a direct response to what you said, I would have said "let's see how the vibe is and let things play out naturally. No expectations on my end." which is close to what you wrote anyways.
I tried your message. In regards to your points, I was not sure how much she was agreeing to the submissive frame. The other two yes I could have played off differently.
If i am not totally wrong, she seems dtf. ( previous convo would help a bit here)
''(insert name) you know that we are going to have fun either way 😈'' or you just ignore her question and go with ''so how does your schedule look ?''
@Dude Dudesen. I included the screenshots. Whats your thoughts with that. I know I could probably have built up some more excitement off of the shower. Live and learn.