High investment girl, now losing interest

Thanks for all the advice bros. Yeah hindsight really is 20/20 and I should've taken a step back before going reactive, really is a problem of mine

I'll see if I can salvage the situation and let you guys know

Yeah, honestly the only mistake you made was pushing too hard even after she told you she didn't know when she would recover. That last message you sent is supposed to be used when the girl is kind of indecisive about scheduling, in this case she was not, she was telling you the truth which is that she needs a couple days before scheduling. And yes, that thing about you being busy too came off as butthurt

Alright so this actually doesn't look too bad. Tbh I think you trying to "strike while the iron is hot" wasn't a bad move. I think you probably could have gone about it in a better way by asking her what her schedule is instead of continue to suggesting times hoping that one of them would work (so something like "Sure, what's your schedule like?") - it's unfortunate that she replied the way she did but here's where the biggest fuckup came and I think you know what I'm going to say.

I think you took the law student thing way too seriously. She's just mentioning that she's busy, not that she's more busy than you, or that she's somehow getting less sleep than you and therefore can't meet. Your response was unnecessary and came off very bitter (reactive). I'm glad you're recognizing that but that's pretty much the only major fuckup I see here. I think you would have been fine if you had just said what you suggested or even just liked her message.

As for reengaging, I would wait at least 2-3 days, maybe a little longer and probably reengage with something like "How are you feeling?"

Going for the IG was a bad idea. Why not go for the number instead? Nothing you can do now but wait

Hey guys, just updating and this is really turning into a fucked situation haha. Check the screenshots i’ve attached, it’s the continuation of our convo

So if you see her last message to me in the last screenshot (alright see you tom), that’s 8pm. Then around 30mins ago (11:30pm), i was walking with another girl (let’s call her Tina) nearby my condo, at the park (literally the place where i offered the girl in the screenshots, let’s call her Jan, to first meet tomorrow so she knows i’m not a serial killer etc).

So just my luck, I THINK i saw Jan, sitting on a bench with someone (can’t tell if guy/girl and if platonic/romantic). But i can’t tell for sure cos it was really split second; I froze, immediately turned, and went back (i know it’s beta, but it was a split second thing fight or flight thing and i fled). Even the girl I was with, Tina, noticed i was off. I can’t tell for sure 100% that it’s Jan, but she looks like her and she does live in the area so it’s highly likely

I also can’t tell for sure if “Jan” recognized me. I had my mask down and she was looking at me, but can’t tell if it was a look that lingered or just a natural glance whenever people pass by

Sorry for the ramble lol i know i brought this on me but it’s still frustrating nonetheless, since we were finally going to meet tomorrow

Anyway, how would you guys handle it ? Don’t really have any other option but just text her tomorrow, “pick out a cute outfit for tonight yet”, and see where it goes from there

Assuming she replies and she turns out to be the girl i saw and she confronts me with it (and really worst-case, calls me out on beta energy when i fled), how would you guys react ?

And last scenario, if she’s not sure herself that she saw me, should i just deny that i was there ? Or own up ?

Thanks and sorry again for the ramble dudes my minds a mess

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