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I saw this chick 2 weeks in a row. Had the best sex of my life, we both experimented with things we’d never done before, and in general, just a great vibe. I couldn’t see her the week after, I had plans and then things went cold for two weeks. I re-engaged her yesterday and this is how she responded to me trying to make plans.
My only guess as to why she’s responded with this is because I matched with another chick on Bumble that turned out to be a friend of hers. I found out by seeing a ‘story’ on social media of them hanging out. I never even met up with the second chick though. Not sure how to proceed.
"When did i say you are a second option?" If she acknowledges the friend part then say "well are u suggesting that you want us to become exclusive ;)"
^^This^^
Definitely don't play dumb. Just flip the frame onto her
"What do you mean?" I would get her to verbalise it then you can try deal with it- maybe play it down "I don't even remember honestly, I was probably just bored" or make it a joke out of it "Threesome?"
Reframe it
Would you mind sharing how, perhaps provide an example? That doesn’t really help lol
