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Cold approached a chick at a department store, talked for a few minutes and got her number. Soft closed but she says she is “busy” for the whole week and weekend and won’t find out her work schedule until next week. Was considering responding with “Busy girl. Look, I’ve got shit to do as well. But I’m sure we could both find a few hours if we actually wanted to.” or “Busy girl. I’ll check up with you next week about your new work times” or "Busy girl. Let me know next week when you get your new work times", but the first one seems too soon, the second one sounds a bit lame and the third one seems too passive if I'm waiting on her to follow up. What do you suggest?
Give it sometime, build a little bit of more vibe and then hint at the boba date and go for the hard close again on a higher note. She sounds like she’s not down to meet up right now.
So how should I respond right now?
“Next week will be busy for me but we’ll figure out a time when we’re both free.” And then just ask her a personal question/observation about her to vibe and elevate her interest levels a bit.