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Thanks in large part to PWF I have had good success in online dating. But due to living in a country where we we've had lockdowns for the most part over the past two years and that I was a minor before that I never really went out to clubs/bars until the past 2 months. Anyways, at clubs the music is too loud to talk to anyone but I see dudes making out with chicks. My goal when going out is either to take the girl home that night or get numbers so that I can set up dates. So basically what to you do when you go out to bars/clubs to make this shit happen?
Well. I personally don't go to clubs for that reason. I prefer chill bars or lounges. I'm sure where you live there's places like that as well. Ideally, you'd want to go to an area where the music isn't too loud
There's multiple ways to do it. Smoking area(should be quiet), dancefloor. If there's no these, well, you just have to go there and strike up a convo. Also before you say a word, get attention first. I usually just wave and get their attention first, then show them to come closer before saying anything. Then you can bang up any opener you like without repeating yourself, if you talk loud enough.
