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So I posted here a couple times about this. It always takes several days to get any advice on these i try to figure it out for myself. Ill drop the screenshots so you can see how the text interaction went and let me know how I could have done this one better. For additional context, I gave her an uber ride to her sneaky link at 3am from a club. As I was driving her she started flirting with me, and as I dropped her off she asked if I wanted to hang out. I said "sure", we exchanged numbers, and she went to go get her back blown out or whatever. The ensuing text exchange shows the rest.
Looks like she agreed to your soft close then you didn't confirm a time and place. And then you spontaneously ask her if she's free, which didn't work out.
Re-engage and get her to say her schedule again, then invite her to "split a bottle on your romantic balcony" as it were. Get a firm confirmation of time and place after bantering a bit
should i re engage soon? wait a couple days?
If it's already been a couple days since you last texted then now is good. Although this one I would make it 5+ days between texts personally. Your call.