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How to handle these girls? This is all very new to me but I’m more often seeing girls sexualize the conversation.
Like if I mention the wine and balcony, they might say or instead how about you bend me over your balcony.
I wonder how many of these girls are just bored and want to sext (and how to determine this)? Also, how do you respond: add to what she said or just act like you get that all the time, move to # (if on Tinder), or arrange date (if via text)?
BTW think this topic would make a great video Alex.
Continue & add to what she said
“grab a fistful of your hair, choke you, & slap that great ass” or “Feeling adventurous tonight”
Wait for her response & if it’s a positive sexual reply, then actually send her your number & see if she actually texts you. Try to go for the close that night if possible or set something up for that week/weekend.
If had situations like this, but keep in mind some girls have played this shit on me & they're all just really talk & ended up flaking. Hope this helps broski 🔥
I’ll typically try to match her vibe, no need to overthink it.
In terms of figuring out how many of these girks are legit there’s no way so you just have to take a shot with each and see how they respond. If you start getting buying questions like “do you live alone”, then you know for sure
sounds like progress to me. follow up with something like, "that can be arranged", or "say please", maintain control of the frame, "sure. can you handle it?"
A general approach here would be to reward and then pull back a little to leave room for more investing.
There are a few reasons why you would get messages like those. I’ll touch on a couple of cases.
Mindset 1: the ones that bait to see if you’ll bite, get overeager and over invest. This serves as a “weed out” technique. Failing in this case is gonna probably lead to getting ghosted/blocked/unmatched/etc.
Mindset 2: the ones that are super DTF for you because you seem to just “do it for them”. In this case you can get away with a lot more and closing is a lot easier obviously.
If you don’t actually know which case you’re dealing with or can’t get a good feel for it, then just follow the general rule of acknowledging/rewarding and then pulling back a little.
