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Been texting this girl for a few weeks. She's heavily invested, double texts long messages always complimenting my Instagram stories and saying how she can't wait to meet me. We have also been sexting a lot very explicitly so she was sold on the idea of fucking me or so I thought. The problem arises that we both have shitty logistics as in we both live with our parents. So I suggested we go have some drinks and stay at a hotel after. She initially seemed into the idea then suddenly pulled back saying she wanted to take things slow. I thought she may be worried I was some sort of serial killer or something so I tried to address her concerns. Her response kinda pissed me off as she almost aggressively tried to control the frame as she was like 'well it's all good because we're taking it slow' which I hadn't agreed too BTW. After this I just kinda lost all motivation to even text her as it was such a sharp contrast to her previous texting which had been very flirty and sexual. Also with these shitty logistics I can't see anyway this leads to sex if she's not comfortable going to a hotel. Should I just give her up? Thanks in advance
No, you should not give up especially since this girl was so invested. You just need to do a better job of trying to figure out her concerns/objections because it could honestly be a number of things. The most common are the anti-slut defense, bad past experience, or she just doesn't want to get hurt/used. These are all easy objections to handle but screenshots and some context would help a lot.
Hope this helps bro.
It takes next-level skills to pull off what you're trying to do here (convince a girl you haven't met to go to a hotel with you). The reason is, it's hard for her to believe that a quality man would lay out hundreds? of dollars in advance on a girl he hasn't screened. Therefore, you're not a quality man in her eyes. You can talk your way around this but it's unnecessarily hard and you should just make a more sensible plan.
Such as, just meet for drinks. Keep it short, a "date 0". The next meeting can be at a hotel bar if she's worth it. You know you've done a great job when she's paying for the hotel room.
Or, fuck her in the back of your car, on a beach, etc. And sort out whatever problem is stopping you from fucking people at your parents' house. Don't they want grandchildren some day?
