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Yo, I matched with this chick about a month ago. We jumped on the phone and talked for 2 hours almost straight after. Had a great connection. She’s 18, lives an 1 hour away from me (with her parents). Couldn’t meet up straight away. I’ve texted her every 3, 4 days by either trying to make plans or just dropping some value (sharing a funny story over voice notes). Have tried to keep the texting brief and not overdo it (I always end up leaving her on read lol)
After trying to make plans a few times, we finally found something that works for both next week. But the thing is, she wants to see me for an entire day. Doesn’t just want to come here around 5-6pm like I first suggested. She wants to maximize the time spent together because it’s a long drive for her plus she’s living with her parents. Any tips on what to do an entire day with this chick? I’m thinking playing some pool then grabbing something to eat, a light lunch or something. Nothing crazy. Already have plans to bring her back to my place afterwards with a good reason (just told her some bs about helping me decorate my new apartment)
Bro just don’t overthink it and I would say bring her to the apartment first, you don’t want to spend the day with her and get no ass.
-Let her come to the apartment relax drink a glass of wine or two
-vibes first, relax knock one or two rounds out first, to see if she is even your type
-then after, you both can go places that you like, not what she like what you like
I’d say you both do shopping together and pick a few things for decorating and then head over to your apartment.
That’ll just make it a lot easier or you could grab something to eat/drink along the way.
Man I don't know guys. Usually I just invite girls straight to my place for some wine and they come. But this chick is looking for something serious. She doesn't drink, she'll have to drive home later in the evening, and I'm pretty sure she won't come straight to my house first time. Plus I don't even have a TV to watch a movie (although have laptop).
After I suggested for us to see each other around 5-6pm she said "Look up when you're free instead (I said I have stuff do to during the day) . And tell me when you have time to spend an entire day with me and not just squeeze me in when you have some free time".
I know you're not supposed to invest a bunch into a chick before fucking but I'm a bit puzzled by this situation. We vibe really well too
Nah man. Keep things simple. Have some wine and watch a movie. And just escalate. Your goal is to bang this chick. Not to entertain :)
