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Background: girl Loosely know in real life matched on tinder. Very high investment from the start as seen from screenshot. Went on 1 date, went good we kissed at the end and both agreed to meet again. I had to travel abroad for 1 month meaning we couldn’t have a second date but her investment remained high, with her texting and calling frequently saying she missed me and was excited to be planning dates again etc. Since I’ve been back in town her investment has dropped. She takes 12-24hrs to respond and her replies aren’t that great, it seems to have switched dynamic to me chasing for the meet-up now which is what usually happens when a girls investment in me drops, I become more interested because I want it back. The other screenshot is how the chat is currently left, I’m looking for some advice on how to get things back on track.
Unless I'm mistaken the 2nd one is IG? Why aren't you texting her phone number?
She's giving her availability so I think she's still willing to meet you. Use Alex's methods for getting the soft and hard close for the next date. You got this!
Haha bro, the convo is fine. The girl is still receptive, she gave you a counteroffer of when to meet. Obviously you're a good looking dude so you might used to girls chasing more aggressively but I can assure there is nothing needy or chasey from your end in the screenshots shown.