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we have had a couple dates and had some amazing sex. she seems to wait longer to text and she only responded to todays hangout (that she had planned) after i called her. which i found kinda rude to wait all day to say that. at least let me know before if you respect my time.
"you know i like hanging with you without sex. idc if we watch a movie or play a game. sure the sex was great but i see you as more than just that." i was thinking of saying something like that idk i want to be compassionate but also i dont want to get ghosted
Yeah the best thing to do is pull back for a while. Don't text her for a week or 2 and after that, if she dosen't hit you up first, see how thing stand. But never suggest that you should hang out without sex. Never. It'll only put you into the friendzone. You can still be friendzoned even after you had sex.
In my experience the best thing you can do when a girl pulls back like this is to pull back yourself. If you don't pull back she is probably going to ghost you.
Don't send her that text, just reply to her message with something like "Alright 👌 I'm doing good thanks" and then don't message her for a week (unless she does). Wait a week to see if she messages you or not, and if she doesn't, you can send her something like "How's my favorite (insert race or hair color) doing?"
you dont think i should show some sort of compassion for what she is dealing with?
Normally, yes, but in this situation I probably wouldn't. You guys were supposed to meet that evening and she backs away at the last minute? If it was some emergency it would be understandable but here it sounds like there was no valid reason for her to wait that long to send that message.
Have you established what kind of relationship it is going to be? Like did you ever ask her "what she was looking for?". You don't want to come off as too clingy if she is only looking for a FWB.
yea she knows im looking for a relationship. she said that she is open to one
How about just pull back for a bit.. get some more options before you blow it
i have plenty of options but she is the one at the top of the list now. pull back as in ghost her...? or what
I didn’t see the message until now so disregard my comment.
Nah. Don't send your text. I definitely see her not being as interested in you as you are into her. What is she saying about negative? STD's?
