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So I had a party on Thursday and this girl came along with some other friends, I saw she was hot and we caught each others eyes.
I spoke to her a few times, then I asked for her number to meet for a quieter drink sometime and she said she was seeing someone but asked for my phone to give me her number.
She text me when she was home and we’ve been sending texts back and forward
I mentioned about a date again and she’s brought up seeing someone else again.
How should I respond? I’ve attached the first message and the most recent
"So, when's the wedding"
I would also recommend to send fewer texts in a row. You're sending like three texts in a row, which shows you clearly the one that is chasing her. Send fewer, succinct, and magnetic/power texts. You do not to reply to each individual convo she sends because then it's all over the place. You should only reply to convo threads in which you can segue to the meetup/date.
I would send a diff text to gauge her schedule like: "What's your schedule like"
Other pointers:
I would not use the "😭" emoji it looks quite feminine. You are also giving her too many compliments/praises , which gives off nice guy energy.
Don't date her if she has a boyfriend you will end up having to repent for it. Tell her to leave him or let him know she's gonna see other people
This is is latest message received
So you had a date, but then later on she tells you that she's seeing someone?
That to me sounds like you didn't have an actual date, but she thought she was just out with a friend?
Can you tell us a bit how said evening with her went in terms of polarisation and sexual energy?
No I never said I had a date with her - Please read back to the original post :)
My two cents:
1- ease on the crying emojis or emojis in general if you've been using those a lot
2- I'd answer one of the following, use your best judgment on this one "yeah, so?" "didn't know, don't care" "we'll be discreet ;)"
Take my feedback with a grain of salt, I'm not the best at this
Yeah so is a good one.
Yeah so, something wrong with a discreet drink?
Never be a text buddy, start weaning back your reply’s and interest
"I do. But I'm sure you can tell him I'm your gay best friend and leave for a couple of hours"
Ah this would have been a great reply. I went with a different comment. ‘So, whens the wedding’
She took a few days to respond and she’s sent this. How would you play it?
Don’t reply to all those texts, just reply to her “I’m a busy gal”
Some variation of “Look, I’m busy too but I’m sure we could both find a few hours if we actually wanted to”
She’s starting to sound like a time waster. This will lightly call her out while determining if you she will actually see you or you need to drop her.
