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Given the objection to coming straight to my place, I used the "stranger danger?" response as seen from a PWF video. Any suggestions about this one?
Msging on instagram skipping to plan making part
Me: What're you doing tmrw/tue?
Her: Hi :) As of now I am putting my place together, tomorrow and be free to do something thing (not exactly sure about this one)
Me: For sure. I'll hyu tmrw
Me: Sup bby girl. I've got a few things to get done then I'll be free. What's your day like?
Her: Hi-I'm going to work today and hitting the gym, what do you have in mind?
Me: How close are you to (Address)
Her: It's not a bad drive, what's that?
Her: I'd prefer coffee or dinner with you ^^
Me: Ya, I was thinking we could have tea. It's my air bnb
Me: What's your timing btw?
Her: I'd prefer to meet somewhere public tho :)
Her: We can totally do tea
Me: Stranger danger?
Me: Also, lmk timing. Still have to shower
Her: Common sense
Me: We can meet for tea at Envy steak house down the street
Her: Honestly I'm good but thank you anyways
Me: Just wanted to know your objection. If that's enough to turn you off from me, np
Her: Tbh I'm still getting settled and would prefer to wait longer before trying to date, but I also do prefer meeting in public places
Her: So I appreciate it but I don't think it's the right time
yeah man, you unfortunately fucked up here. This was pretty bad closing. And also you made it a lot harder than it needed be. Check out my video 5 steps to setting up a date. In there i break down how to optimally close and setup logistics.
Checked out the video, thanks for the recommendation! Should have gone with the 'let's celebrate' frame for sure. I also like setting up a specific time for the date the day before ideally, I'll do that next time as well. I'm in a kind of dull air bnb with no 'romantic balconies', hot tubs, etc. I usually frame it like having tea together or just generally hanging out, but I don't know if that's compelling enough for most girls to go directly to a guy's house? If my place is kind of dull should I be setting up the date for somewhere close (within walking distance to our place)? Thanks again!
happy to help, dont worry about your place being nothing special you can still use the romantic balcony line for 7 years and for the first 3 i lived in a shitty apartment with no romantic balcony of any kind. If shes sitting on a public place then do a bar that is walking distance from you stick to drink, tea is not that exciting for most chicks
Your texting seems fine. Some girls won't come straight over depending on archetype. Especially if they're the type of girls that send the "^^" smiley.
Leaving to CA on 2nd of April, but will likely be back June. Any ideas how to re-engage? Thanks for the comment :)
It's over. No re-engaging.
