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Hi there. I met this cute girl on tinder. Had good banter, funny vibe going on for a few days. Got her # and ig. She was responding well. I soft closed her and later set date and time, but she flaked on me first time. She said I didn't messaged her the days leading up to our date, etc. Fine, I restarted the vibe and soft closed her once again, set the date, kept the banter going a bit, then she just disappeared in middle of banter/teasing convo. It's been a week. The screenshots are of convo right after first flake, all the way to ghosting. I'd like to know what you guys think of re-engaging her and how (calling her out or tesingly) or if I should just move on. Or is she a case of them girls that are not serious about meeting up. You're POV is greatly appreciated. Cheers
You need some honesty man. The text game needs serious work. You are way too nice guy/young sounding. Cut out the emojis and be more confident. Watch some PWF texting vids and go from there.
Thanks man. Im here for the tough love, not bs. The emoji thing was an inside joke. I don't usually, but she was like an emoji nazi. I was trying to match but think it looked like I fell in her frame
Yeah man for sure. I used to think I needed to be really funny/clever over text to stand out, but you don't.
The more simple the better. This will get her to chase you instead of the other way around.
That last message of yours was super needy. "Sorry for my last message. please, I really hope you didn't misunderstand me. How was your weekend?"
I think this one is lost. If you have her IG, then you can show value through that and maybe re-engage at a later stage again.
Thanks Herb. I debated about sending this one, but she had already not responded in over a day. Since I thought we had good banter going on I thought maybe she misread/misunderstood and I wanted to clarify. Anyways, lesson learned.
There's way too much investment on your end man. And that's some weird pointless overly gamey texting. Take a look at some of my videos on how to set up a date over text
Gotcha. There was some call back humor embeded in there, but to your point- unnecessary and too much investment from my end. Thanks man.
One last thing, would you try to re-engage or chuck it?
