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I was thinking about social circle a little bit. While I have made some newer friends, I recalled this female friend (let's call her T) I used to talk to in high school (10 years ago). I liked her and I'm pretty sure she liked me, but we were both shy (especially me) and nothing ever happened. At the end of senior year, we were at a school-sponsored social event. We were sitting together, talking, and I put my hand on her back (she was somewhat receptive). I heard she was going to an after party with some friends including two other attractive girls. I asked if I could come and she said no, it was just going to be girls there.
We haven't stayed in touch, unfortunately, but T and I are Facebook friends. To describe these three girls, they were a bit artsy, slackers, not popular, bisexual. T has moved away in the years since high school, but the other two still live close to my area. I looked up both of the friends on Facebook. One of them has her relationship status as single; the other doesn't have a status but no boyfriend/girlfriend in her photos.
I was wondering what the best way to go about this would be. My instinct is to message my friend T and chat a little bit before asking her to introduce me to one (or both haha) of her friends. Any ideas?
Why are you worried about two women from 10 years ago of which you had nothing with? You’re coming from a place of scarcity and desperation, and you prove that even further by wanting to ask “t” to introduce these women to you.
I know they are my type physically and I have at least some small social proof here. I'm not worried per se. I'm willing to take risks for good results. I was just wondering how to increase my chances. T is very nice and might be willing to help me so I thought it might be an easier opener than cold messaging these other girls. But I'm open to all suggestions. Thank you.