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Had a date last night from CMB and wanted to know if anything could be done to overcome these issues:
Also Alex, you have a video about first dates, but I really need more advice on conversation topics and specifics of what to talk about during the date that leads it toward pulling.
I know preplanned topics would come off as scripted. But what are some of the default questions you like to ask? What do you do when there's that awkward pause and draw a blank?
An awkward pause is actually okay most of the time. Really the only time I actively avoid pauses is during the pulling. Apart from that, it's okay here and there. It puts the burden of making conversation on the girl. Which is good in moderation. One piece of advice I can give you is rely heavily on the "we-frame". Rather than talk about yourself/her (Which is also okay in moderation), talk about the two of you as a unit. Talk about the stuff that's going on around you, funny hypotheticals, roleplays, etc
