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So tonight my fwb came over to hook up but it didn't go as planned... At first it was hot & steamy then after awhile of foreplay, I lost my erection. We tried to do it again but still nothing. She said it wasn't a big deal but its still a shitty feeling. Im a pretty healthy guy, I work out, run, eat right for the most part and try to get a decent sleep. And previous times, this hasn't happened with this particular girl. Idk whats wrong with me.
Maybe you're just not that sexually attracted to her. Does this happen with other chicks as well? Or only her?
It’s happened occasionally with other girls but usually after a few minutes i’m good to go. That’s usually due to my nervous though. This time that wasn’t the case
Yep dude. It's probably a lack of sexual attraction to the chick. That's happened to me as well before
Things happen from time to time. You could be stressed or going through shit you don't even realize. I wouldn't overthink it if you and the fwb hook up enough
you think it would be a big deal If I started to develop feelings for this girl? I dont want this little incident to ruin what we got going on.
Not completely no. I would try and feel where she is at. That is a fear most people have I turned a fwb to a 9 year relationship(granted it ended) but it can happen.
hey man this has happened to me too.
do you have problems with erections when masturbating?
are you on meds like anti depressants or hair loss meds?
have you tested your hormones?
go to a doctor and they’ll prescribe you daily cialis.
if that doesn’t work there’s also injections i use them and they’re pretty amazing.
a good doctor will test for any vascular or blood retention issues.
Next time tell her that sometimes he's shy.......and you think maybe he needs a kiss.......maybe some head would help get you hard?
PS. Make sure you're watching her give it.
PPS. How do you make a hormone..............don't pay her......lol
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The MOST important thing is to not think about/focus on it. It's no big deal if you don't get hard sometimes. I mean Zero thought about it....lol. Totally natural. And if you DO get hard at times, morning wood etc, then there is nothing physically wrong.......fwiw.
And an erection occurs when blood flows into the penis....like a gate opening to let blood in.......that's it. There's no extra pressure or anything that makes it happen.
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Another trick is to focus exclusively on one aspect of her body that you find sexy. Tit, ass, inner thigh, clavicle, lips, etc. Just focus on that one thing.
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Also. Stop masturbating totally. Only get off when having sex........
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