Don't know how to respond

"Well you know what they say about the fox guarding the proverbial bunny house. Lol. Ya I like an assertive, slightly older woman who knows what she wants, it's hot"

I would follow up Jan’s message with

“I found with older women is a higher sex drive and typically better communication, which matches me.”

Thanks bro, that seems like it will do the trick

I prefer yours honestly unless the girl/conversation was already headed in a sexual direction

Too gamey IMO. He needs to be genuine when answering that 2nd part